How to Bet on Yourself and Build A Business Around Freedom

Happy Friday, all!

Hope you had a good week.

This week’s conversation with Kyra Mitchell Lewis really stayed with me—especially her perspective on what it means to build a business around freedom. I loved seeing how she lit up talking about her business and the excitement she has around creating the business of her dreams.

After more than 20 years in corporate marketing, Kyra was laid off. And instead of panic, she felt something unexpected: freedom. The kind of clarity that many of us don’t give ourselves permission to feel until we’re forced to.

What I kept coming back to as we talked is this idea: you don’t need a perfectly defined plan to move forward—you need a clear sense of purpose and the willingness to trust yourself.

When Kyra decided to give herself six months to make entrepreneurship work, she wasn’t operating from certainty. She was operating from belief. And that belief showed up in a few key ways that I think are worth paying attention to.

First, she anchored everything in purpose. Not just “what do I do?” but “why does this matter?” That became her filter for decisions, even as her business evolved.

Second, she stayed visible. She had conversations, shared what she was doing, and let people know how she could help. So many opportunities came not from a perfect strategy, but from simply being in the room (or the conversation).

Third, she built systems early. She didn’t wait until she was overwhelmed—she proactively created workflows and used AI to take repetitive tasks off her plate. That’s what allowed her to actually experience the freedom she was building toward.

But here’s the part that hit me the most…

In the middle of all this growth, she hadn’t stopped to acknowledge what she’d done. No moment of “I’m proud of myself.” No pause to recognize that she chose herself—again and again—when it would have been easier to go back to what was familiar.

I see this all the time with clients—and in myself too.

We’re so focused on what’s next that we forget to recognize what’s already working.

There is no finish line where everything suddenly clicks. This is it. The business you’re building is happening right now. Your life is happening right now.

So the question becomes: are you letting yourself see it?

Questions of the Week

  1. Where am I being called to trust myself more deeply in my business right now?
  2. How am I showing up (or not showing up) in conversations that could lead to new opportunities?
  3. What progress have I made recently that I haven’t taken time to acknowledge?

Tool of the Week

Celebrating Your Success (Simple Weekly Practice)

This week’s “tool” is less about software and more about a habit I think many of us need to build.

Set aside 10–15 minutes at the end of your week and write down:

  • 3 things you did well
  • 1 risk you took (even if it didn’t work out)
  • 1 moment you’re proud of

No minimizing. No “but I could have done more.” Just acknowledgment.

If you want to take it a step further, keep a running “wins list” in your notes app or journal. On the hard days, you’ll have proof that you’re making progress—even when it doesn’t feel like it.

Because celebrating your success isn’t extra—it’s part of building a sustainable, aligned business.

Have a wonderful weekend!

Best,

Brian